If you want the hair removed permanently with the mole, than your dermatologist will need to remove it surgically with stitches.  If you don't mind plucking a few hairs there, than he/she could just shave it flat which would be safer in terms of possible adverse scar. 

 In my opinion, if you decide to go the first route, have either a board certified plastic surgeon or a board certified dermatologist who is a Mohs surgeon do the surgery.  Some dermatologists advertise themselves as being Mohs surgeons when they haven't completed the full one year of extra training to do this.  I think this is unethical. Check to see if they are truly Mohs certified and didn't just do a weekend course.   Dr I